Gratitude

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Gratitude practices are becoming more familiar in the world of pop psychology and the pursuit of happiness.  Believe me, I know this can feel like a big stretch when you are suffering or in distress and yet there are reasons to give it a try and see how it impacts your life.  There is science behind it. In the world of positive psychology, the links between gratitude and happiness are well studied.  Much of that research demonstrates links between practices of gratitude and subjective experiences of…

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Good Enough

We are constantly bombarded with messages that we are "not enough".  Advertising and social media often reinforce this idea with images of the latest product that we need or the happy times we are not part of.  We know that this is a limited perspective and yet it still impacts our feelings of adequacy.   Within our health management, the same concept can apply.  There are often many tasks or lifestyle changes that are prescribed or recommended.  When we are unable to adopt them easily and…

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Distractions Can Be Good

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In the ongoing quest for acceptance and allowing for all emotional experiences, I sometimes must remind myself (and those I work with) that distraction is not a dirty word. There are times when the wisest and kindest option we have for ourselves is to choose to take a break from intensity.   The key is to use distraction as simply one more tool in our coping repertoire.  We can run into trouble if we are constantly avoiding unwanted feelings or situations.  There is no way to permanently…

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Support for Self-Compassion

Throughout 2019, the theme on this blog (and my life) has been self-compassion. It's an important topic for those of us with health conditions as too often we feel our struggles are a burden to others and we neglect to offer ourselves the love and nurture we need. This road can be a hard one and it's okay to acknowledge the struggle as we continue to live lives based on values and meaning This focus started off in January with a link outlining the scientific benefits…

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Compassionate Limits

I recently saw this posted on Sharon Salzberg's Facebook page. She is an inspiring Buddhist teacher who is renowned for her work on loving kindness (metta) practices. It's a beautiful reminder of the importance and wisdom of boundaries. We need them in order to be well and to serve ourselves and others. So when we set those limits, aim to bring kindness and love to that experience.

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Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)

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As anyone who knows me can attest, I am a huge proponent of the adoption of mindfulness practices. I believe that there are a multitude of benefits from learning about and bringing this spirit of kind open and nonjudgmental awareness to our lives. http://pixabay.com Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) is a widely researched method of learning mindfulness practices. Many studies of the MBSR curriculum have attested to its positive health effects. Attending an MBSR group and learning from a trained instructor, along with the other participants,…

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Awareness is the First Step

Spring is fast approaching. For me, the season always brings thoughts of change and hope. I am not one for New Year's Resolutions, but as the weather warms to I find myself reflecting on what areas of my life might need a little fresh air, a gentle dusting off or perhaps an entirely new coat of paint. As I start this process of inner refreshment, I am reminded of the importance of just allowing a soft awareness of the sticky areas. I can find the tools…

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