Visibility

Today I read a statement/affirmation/words of wisdom that I want to share.  I'll get to that.  But first I want to briefly talk about visibility. Visibility in chronic illness is a frequent topic.  Or rather, invisibility is. Although some of the symptoms and side effects may be obvious, much of the experience plays out beneath the surface or behind the curtains, where friends, colleagues and even family do not see. These silent and insidious side effects are far reaching and include both physical and psychological processes. …

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Acceptance is not Resignation

Acceptance is such a common theme that I am revisiting it again - you can see my first video post on the topic here: Acceptance Naturally, when we are faced with something unpleasant, we want it to go away.  As with any problem we encounter in life, our natural instinct is to find a solution.  We may seek this solution through consulting with a health professional, requesting input from our community or attempting self management.  Thankfully, one of these options generally provides the answers we seek…

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Day by Day (Even When You Are Tired)

I recently came across this: I immediately loved the quote and set about finding the source.  I was even more thrilled to see it came from this article: 11 Quotes to Remember When You Feel Exhausted Take a read through whenever you are feeling worn out - hope comes from just doing the next best thing.  Sometimes that thing is reading other people's wisdom.

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Take your breaks

For mental well-being, taking breaks (and vacations from work) is essential.  An interesting article by Cari Romm on the Science of Us blog earlier this year highlights the importance of scheduling in those breaks!  It turns out we are actually more productive after planned breaks (vs. taking them when we think we need them).  Who knew?  Follow the link below to read the whole story... Taking Breaks Is Good for You — But Scheduling Your Breaks Is Even Better

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RISING STRONG™

If you are feeling weary of trying so hard to manage your health and manage your life, you may be interested in the next offering of the Rising Strong™ curriculum on October 14 and 15, 2017. What: A small-group experience co-presented by Karen Gilbert, OT, CDWF.  This experiential group is based on the Rising Strong™ book and curriculum of Brene Brown and will focus on supporting you in creating your own story throughout the challenges of a health condition. When: Saturday and Sunday, 9:00am – 2:30pm, October 14-15, 2017 Where: Oak and…

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Who Are You?

We all wear many different hats in the various parts of our lives.  The person you are at work is slightly different than the one you are with your children and they are both different than who you are when you are at the doctor's office.  This is normal and adaptive.  Life's many contexts require us to share aspects of our personality with discretion. From time to time, though, you may start to ask the question "who am I really?".  This might occur after a particularly…

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Self-Care

Both here on the blog and in my client sessions, I talk a lot about self care.  Sometimes I feel the words start to get a little tired and worn from over-use.  Yet I continue to stress self care because I truly believe it is vital to living and thriving.  We very simply NEED to engage in practices that care for ourselves. An article recently touched on the subtleties of self care.  The article beautifully distinguishes acts of daily human maintenance from more intentional acts of self-care. Please read…

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Do It Anyway (Sometimes. Sometimes Don’t.)

I was reminded last night the importance of choosing to push myself at times. (The "at times" disclaimer is important because resting and restoring is equally as important at times). Most people can identify with feeling that peculiar combination joy and exhaustion that comes at the end of a long week.  I was feeling proud of making it through and also ready to devote my evening to some serious navel-gazing. That's when I remembered the concert tickets. Inside my head, for over 30 minutes, a battle raged over the…

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Preparing for a New Year

I came across this simple and powerful activity that was posted last year by Smile FM and I was struck by the positive spirit it conveys.  While our struggles and pains are real and valid, I believe we can all find one thing each week to be grateful for.   This can be as small as feeling the warmth of the sun on your face or as large as winning the jackpot in the lottery. I love this idea and I encourage all of us to put…

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Christmas in the Air

We can so easily get caught up in the emotional frenzy during the holidays - sometimes as we swirl along in it and sometimes as we look from afar and wish we were able to participate. At times like these, I find it helpful to focus on small things that I know to be true and this quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson captures what the holiday season (and all of life) is really about for me.

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